Squirting has become popular among both those who have a vagina and those who are into vaginas. Many men find it incredibly hot when a woman squirts, and many women who haven’t yet experienced it are eager to try.
Whether it’s a big deal to you or not, squirting can be a fun addition to your sex life. If you want to learn to squirt, there are a few tips, tricks, and toys that can make it easier.
Although it isn’t yet clear what exactly it is that makes someone squirt (not to mention all bodies are unique), we can pinpoint the fundamentals down to a few things. One of them is intensely pleasurable G-spot stimulation and another is enough foreplay. In this article, I’ve made it my mission to go through and test toys and rank the best sex toys to help you squirt. I’ll also go through some techniques you can try to attempt to learn how to squirt, or even just do it more often.
We’ll start off this article by clearing up precisely what squirting is and whether all women can learn to do it or not.
What Is Squirting?
Squirting refers to a sexual release that women can experience where they discharge a smaller or a more considerable amount of clear fluid from their vaginas. This can look very different for different women.
Some women don’t think it’s a big deal. Other women who do experience squirting describe it as an intense and almost overwhelming sensation. Finally, some don’t realize it’s happening until they realize there’s a wet spot on the bed. Some women only release a few drops, while other women release a volume of up to a cup. While you may have to change sheets afterwards if it’s an unexpected happening, most women who squirt (and their partners!) seem to think it’s worth it.
Squirting is not to be confused with female ejaculation. Female ejaculation is a different thing, where glands produce a small amount of milky fluid, chemically similar to semen. This type of ejaculation cannot be done by all females, as not all have the required glands to produce the fluid.
Can All Women Squirt?
The short answer… We don’t know!
We can’t yet say if all women can learn to squirt, but studies show that only 10 to 50% of women have experienced it. Scientists aren’t yet sure exactly how it works, and for that reason, they can’t say if everyone with a vagina can do it. It’s worth noting that most scientists seem to believe all women can squirt under the right circumstances, but this isn’t yet a proven fact or even a proven theory. An accurate study concluding whether all women can learn to squirt would be pretty hard to pull off.
Most squirters will tell you it came naturally (and as a surprise) and that it happens pretty often. A few others will claim that they’ve trained themselves and eventually learned to squirt.
If you’ve never squirted but would like to learn, there are a couple of things you can try even though there’s no guarantee that it will work. Squirting, unlike female ejaculation, doesn’t require any specific glands that some women don’t have, which means it’s likely you can learn to do it. I’ll give you a quick how-to at the end of the article, but the bottom line seems to be that you need to be turned on and relaxed and stiumlate your G-spot.
Our Top Toys For Squirting
So, with all that being said – let’s take a look at my best toys for squirting – to help you achieve the ultimate orgasm.
Lovense Lush 3
Our Top Pick For Squirting
Our first choice for this list had to be Lovense Lush 3, the third and improved edition of best-selling vibrator Lovense Lush. To squirt, you need to stimulate your G-spot, and few toys do it better than the Lovense Lush 3. This remote-controlled vibrator is the perfect toy for all kinds of play, whether solo, with a partner, or from a long distance.
Lovense Lush 3 lets you connect to the Lovense App, allowing you an unlimited amount of patterns and sensations to play with. There are options like real-time control within the app, creating and saving new patterns, and even syncing the vibrations to your favorite songs. In addition, the app is straightforward to understand and lets you connect with a partner in a new, intimate way.
The vibrations certainly aren’t weak, but they also aren’t the most intense that you can find on the market. So if you usually find that the highest vibration setting isn’t enough for you, this vibrator may not be your perfect pick. I wouldn’t recommend it for just solo use, as a big part of its features include using it with someone else, often as foreplay.
The egg-shaped vibrator is designed to stimulate your G-spot and is inserted so that it can massage you internally. You can use the Lovense Lush 3 wherever you are, as it’s wearable: completely hands-free. Just glide it inside, and the shape will hug your body and stay in place as you go about your day.
It’s discreet and quiet, allowing you to go out in public even as you use it. This can certainly make for some fun day trips with your partner! The battery life of this toy is not to be joked about either. Fully charged, this toy will let you play for up to 5 hours.
It’s also waterproof… A plus if you want to use it for squirting! The soft silicone coating allows you to take it to the shower or bath if that’s where you best get your sexy on.
- Discreet & quiet
- Unlimited pattern variation
- Impressive battery life of 5 hours
- Perfect for couples
- Completely waterproof
- A bit pricey
- Not the most powerful vibrator
Her Fantasy Ultimate Clit and G-Spot Vibrator
Most Versatile & Ideal For Experimenting With Squirting
Do you prefer G-spot or clitoral stimulation? Both? You really don’t have to pick a favorite. This uniquely designed vibrator is the ultimate fantasy if you love internal and external stimulation and don’t want your toy to just do one of them.
Her Fantasy Ultimate Climaxer has a very atypical design compared to most vibrators on the market. You may be confused at first glance, but it doesn’t take long to figure out how genius the design really is. With this toy, external and internal stimulation can be achieved simultaneously with a single toy.
But hold your horses; that’s not the only part of the design that will blow your mind. On top of this feature, it also comes with three interchangeable silicone attachments that let you stimulate yourself in different ways. The unique shape provides you with an experience most toys can’t hope to provide.
One of the ends features intense and exciting vibrations. The flexible neck at the end of this head lets you position it however you want to give you precisely what you want.
The other end is instead equipped with stimulation of the suction type. You can use the first end inside of you while you stimulate your clitoris with the suction end, or you can use the tube attachment for nipple suction at the same time.
The size of this toy is relatively small, at just 5.5 inches in length. If you want to bring it with you somewhere, it’s easy to fit into a bag. The toy is coated in silicone, which is safe for your body and gives it a silky smooth feeling. Being so versatile means that this vibrator really is ideal for learning how to squirt as you have multiple approaches you can take.
Maintenance is also easy. Just charge it with the USB cable as often as needed, and wash it after each use. Like other silicone toys, you can wash it with unscented, antibacterial soap or dedicated toy cleaner and then rinse thoroughly.
- Versatile use: G-Spot, Clitoral, and Nipple stimulation
- Both vibrations and suction
- Strong suction
- Ideal for learning more about your own body to help with squirting
Lovense Domi 2
Crazy and Intense Vibrations
Lovense is thriving when it comes to creating unique remote-controlled toys, and Domi 2 is part of the toys they company are proud to present. As the name suggests, Domi 2 is the second edition of Domi. The improved toy is even more powerful, even more, adjustable and has longer battery life. Lovense Domi 2 is quite possibly one of the most powerful of its kind on the market. It’s powerful, it’s small, and it can be controlled remotely.
The rumbling vibrations are available in a limitless number of patterns as Domi 2 is compatible with the Lovense app. The Lovense app lets you create, share and generate patterns based on sound. On top of that, you can use it to hand over the control to partners wherever in the world they may be. The connection is wireless but reliable nonetheless, letting you and your partner play in real-time.
Designed to hit the exact right spot, the toy has a bendable but strong head that lets you apply pressure wherever you want. It’s quite small for its power – just over 9 inches. Small enough to be convenient, but also big enough to satisfy all your needs.
The battery life is also incredibly impressive, as it lets you use it for up to 6 hours! You charge it through a USB cable, and the LED light indicator will let you know when it’s time to recharge and when it’s fully charged.
The combination of the insane battery life, rumbling vibrations, and the robust and adjustable neck all make up the fantastic product that it is for making you squirt. Oh, and of course, it’s also water-resistant. So you can go all out.
The one downer is the noise. With more power, it’s also noisier than a lot of its weaker competitors. So if you’re looking for something discreet, the Domi 2 isn’t it. But if you’re looking to get your mind blown and reach a new high, you’ll love this thing.
- Excellent battery life of 6 hours
- Compatible with iOS and Android
- Super-strong vibrations
- Pretty loud in use
Crazy-Strong Double-Ended Vibrator
Next Level Vibrations
Intensity is vital for you to reach the kind of orgasm that makes you squirt. Few vibrators are designed the way Crazy-Strong Double-Ended Vibrator is. By the name of it, II’m sure you’ve already got an idea. This vibrator is double-ended, and the vibrators are vigorous. It’s stronger than most other toys on the market and the perfect toy if you always ask your vibrator for more.
There are several ways of using this double-sided vibrator. This vibrator lets you stimulate both your clitoris and your labia at the same time if you’re looking for external stimulation or. Alternatively, you can use it to massage your G-spot. Of course, if your goal is to squirt, you’ll want to do both of these things, which earns it a spot on this list. The gently curved shape and body-safe silicone coating let you insert it deeply, hitting just the right spot.
With a diameter of 1.65 inches, the vibrator can fill you up wholly and massage your sweet spot till you’re moaning in pleasure. And it won’t stop until you decide that you’re done.
The powerful vibrator is rechargeable and comes with a charging cable with a USB outlet. It’s easy to wash with antibacterial soap, and it’s waterproof, so cleaning it becomes a breeze.
You get to switch between 7 fun vibration patterns and levels to always find the right fit for you in your current mood. To change mode, all you have to do is press one of the buttons to switch back and forth.
If your vibrators leave you wanting more, consider this toy. It has powerful vibrations (it’s all in the name!) and two motors. So if other vibrators are never quite enough for you, this one could do the trick.
This is not the gentle and quiet type of vibrator, so keep scrolling if you’re looking for something discreet. It’s pretty big (9 inches) and will let its presence known every time you’re using it. No playing around; this Crazy Strong Vibrator means serious business.
- G-spot curve
- Versatile use
- Very powerful vibrations
- 7 different patterns to switch between
- On the expensive side
Pixie Suction Vibrator
The Latest Tech
The new big thing in vibrators are clit-sucking vibrators, and Pixie Suction Vibrator is the perfect example of how good they can be. It’s a small and compact toy of high quality with 7 pleasurable patterns and a removable pinpoint attachment that lets you focus on the sensations even more.
The attachment that comes with your purchase allows you to consistently hit just the right spot. It lets you spoil your clitoris with targeted vibration and suction when you want, and if you’d instead massage a bigger area, you can simply remove the attachment and keep going.
Note that this is a clit pump, not an air-puff clit sucker. The two both give you sensations of suction, but air-puff vibrators are more like a suction-type vibration.
This clit pump also has a vibration setting, and you can switch between the 7 different vibration modes and the 7 different suction modes. The fantastic thing is that you can turn on vibrations and suctions simultaneously and switch between the different modes through separate buttons. This means that you can combine any suction pattern with any vibration pattern, giving you a very customizable experience that offers you the chance to find the perfect combo for you.
The toy is rechargeable through the USB cable that comes with the purchase.
The Pixie Suction vibrator is also very easy to bring with you and use anywhere. It is small in size– 5.5 inches in length, 1.5 inches in diameter – so you can easily slip it into your bag. You can use it almost wherever you wish, as it’s also quiet. Compact and silent make it a perfect companion anywhere.
To sum things up: it’s compact, silent, and highly customizable. With the option of switching between 7 different patterns of vibration and suction in any combo you like and the ability to target the stimulation thanks to the add-on attachment, it’s perfect for the woman who knows what she wants.
- Good price
- Very quiet
- Combine suction with vibrations
- Targeted sensations
- No G-Spot stimulation
Pocket Sized Squirting Fun
Bulky toys can quickly get in the way and be a bit hard to bring with you. They take up more space and are harder to hide, and sometimes all we need is something small and sweet. So I present to you: The pocket-sized bullet vibrator Tango, brought to us by high-quality manufacturer We-Vibe.
You know what they say; it takes two to Tango. We-Vibe has many awesome couple toys, and a great (but not the only) way to use it is with a partner. If you need that added clitoral stimulation but don’t want any toys to get in the way, Tango is small enough to get the job done without bringing too much attention to itself. You can just focus on the moment.
The small size may lead you to believe that it isn’t so powerful, but that would be an inaccurate assumption. Despite the small size, this toy has some serious intensity.
Bring it with you on a trip! It’s perfect for discreet and spontaneous action: not just because of its size, but also because it’s surprisingly silent for the intense vibrations. There are 8 different vibration modes to experiment with, including low to high, pulse, wave, and ultra.
Another reason why it’s great to bring along is the travel lock feature. This feature allows you to turn it off by pressing and holding a few seconds, and then it won’t start upon a regular button press. This option is fantastic to make sure it won’t begin to buzz if someone checks your bags or anything like it. Then, once you’re ready to use it again, you just do the same thing: hold the button to switch it out of the travel lock.
The toy is made of body-safe ABS plastic and has a magnetic type charger, making it completely waterproof. Fully charging the device takes 120 minutes and allows for the same amount of playtime, giving it a solid 1:1 charge to playtime ratio. The LED indicator will also let you know when it needs to charge again.
- Intense vibrations
- Travel lock mode
- No G-Spot stimulation
For the most targeted vibrations
The Thriller Vibrator is another vibrator with a design that stands out. The vibrating motor is positioned right at the tip of the toy’s head, giving you the strongest and most targeted sensations the vibrator can hope to provide. This Thriller Vibrator will let you pinpoint the exact spot you want to stimulate, be it your clitoris or vagina.
You can use it anywhere, really; on your clitoris, g-spot, nipples, or anywhere else you wish. Because of the design, the vibrations are very targeted and allow you to feel it just where you want it. The flexible head makes it easy to adjust and bend until you find the exact right spot.
This Thriller vibrator works excellent for bringing places as well. With a length of 4.5 inches, this toy fits into any bag. It has a very low, undetectable noise level, too. The very quiet vibrations make it easy for you to sneak away and use this toy whenever without anyone noticing. Perfect if you’re looking for a vibrator that can hit the spot on your next little getaway.
The travel lock, which makes sure it won’t turn on when it’s not supposed to, adds to making it perfect for travel or otherwise bringing with you.
It comes with 10 different patterns to spoil yourself with, and you’ll rotate between the patterns with the easy one-button controls.
The silicone coating is a soft, body-safe material that you can enjoy with or without lube. It’s charged with a magnetic charger. This also means that it’s completely waterproof, so get wet and ready for it!
Since squirting requires G-spot stimulation, this toy does best in combination with a dildo or penetrative sex if you are hoping to squirt.
- Great price
- Travel lock
- Targeted vibrations
- Very quiet
- No G-spot stimulation
Clit Kissing G-Spot Vibrator
Almost like oral – intense orgasms guaranteed
Oral sex lovers, listen up: they’ve officially created a sex toy almost as great as oral sex. Not only does it simulate oral sex by stimulating your clitoris, but it stimulates your g-spot at the very same time. This toy promises double-trouble!
The Clit Kissing G-Spot Vibrator features a little licking tongue that will provide you with heavenly stimulation of your clitoris, and the other part of it is made to be inserted and provide you pleasure through your G-spot. There is a separate motor in this part that vibrates, letting you enjoy both G-spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation while you can just sit back and enjoy the ride.
It has an impressive range of patterns to choose from, 12 of them. The vibrations are powerful and best enjoyed inside of you. While it vibrates inside you, the other motor with the tongue has 7 different modes to switch between. There are individual controls to switch between the patterns of vibrations and tongue-action, which lets you combine the sensations any way you’d like.
If you look at the shape and wonder if it will get uncomfortable or fit you, you’ll be glad to hear that it’s really flexible. This means that it works and does well for most bodies.
This toy is excellent for those who want a toy for squirting as it stimulates your clitoris, applies pressure to your g-spot, and vibrates inside of you.
- Amazing g-spot stimulation
- External and internal stimulation simultaneously
- Flexible and fits most bodies
How To Have A Squirting Orgasm
So, you want to learn how to squirt. While squirting isn’t the end-all of sex, it’s certainly a fun addition to your sex life. Here’s what you need to do to have a squirting orgasm.
If you want to, you can work with a partner, but you might want to try squirting during a solo session if it’s the first time. For most women, that makes it easier to relax since you can’t worry about what the other person is thinking.
Before you start, you can get something to cover your bed with (like a towel). Of course, some women only squirt a few drops while others squirt a lot… If you don’t know which one you are yet, taking precautions might be a good idea. Not only that, but it can help you get there. Relaxing is key, and you won’t be able to relax if you’re worried about making a mess.
The next thing to do is to stimulate your clitoris. This is the best way to start turning you on and bring more blood flow down there. You can use your fingers, but a vibrating toy generally works better. When you feel ready, the next step is to apply pressure on your G-spot. The best way to reach your G-spot is, again, with a toy. Many of the toys listed above are perfect for the job and can massage you internally through vibrations and pulsations.
The last and one of the most important steps is to let go. When you are close to squirting, you may get the sensation that you are going to pee. Try not to worry about this, and allow yourself to relax and let go.
If you are already a squirter, that’s fantastic. If you want to learn, that’s also great. And if you don’t squirt, that’s also perfectly fine. For some bodies it comes naturally, and for others it doesn’t. Whether you’re a squirter or not, your focus should be on enjoying yourself. If you need some extra help, each and every toy on this list is designed to help you. The bottom line is that you have fun and aren’t scared to try something new. If at the end of it, you can’t squirt… so what? It’s all about the journey, not the destination. Good luck!